Community member GrassboyWu had this to say.
Finally, I found that the essential reason for the problem that I cannot resize the photo and view them correctly in desktop app is: I used the older version of ExifTool and ExifToolGUI…
(I used ExifTool 9.2.4 and ExifToolGUI 5.15 before)
After I downloaded the newest version (ExifTool 10.4.7 and ExifToolGUI 5.16) and follow the process in your reply, I can resized them correctly!!
Now I can resize the image in two command:
exiftool.exe -overwrite_original -all= [DestImg]
exiftool.exe -overwrite_original -tagsfromfile [SrcImg] "-all:all>all:all" [DestImg]